center in ceiling + 2 bookshelf

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i used to have my tv toward the front of the room so the speakers were inwall 6" and a cheaper center by the tv cabinet. it was a tube 40" tv so you can only think about how large this thing was. in any case even though i miss playing sega on it, it was time for an upgrade. i now have an led tv in the center of the room changing the dynamic of the speaker setup. the center piece im just going to discard because its simply cheap. now ive been doing a little research and then i spoke to someone. the person recommended that i dont use 2 different companies because of the unity. so it through me back a bit because i wanted to use the audioengine p4s and then a center. the second obstacle im faced with is the lady of the house doesnt want to see the center in or around the fireplace or tv so im locked into getting an in ceiling center. is it in-antiquate to do this?

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or is it that much of a difference to go with the

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and would anyone recommend the idea of mixing the center with the audioengine