List of wanted features, help me find a BR player to match

[Medwynd]

After looking at what feels like a hundred players, I rapidly got lost deciding which player I wanted.

Looking for a bluray player that has these features:

- Ethernet hardwired connection, don't care about wireless and would prefer it to not be wireless if it is cheaper

- DLNA that can play videots, it seems like this is pretty impossible to find, but all of my dvd's are already ripped to videots folders

- Amazon video on demand streaming, we don't use netflix streaming but want a good interface to amazons video on demand which we get through amazon prime

- 3D, we have a 3d tv but no glasses yet so this would be a step in the right direction

- DTS-MA & TrueHD, I am hooking this up to an Onkyo TX-SR608 so I dont need it to decode this just pass it through.

- Fast loading, this is almost a necessity because having to wait forever to watch a movie is just horrible

I would appreciate any models you guys can recommend for me to look at.

I was thinking about the PS3 since you can pretty much guarantee its always going to be up to date firmware wise. But it fails most of the other points I am looking for, I hear its not the fastest at loading and it doesn't do Amazon natively, you have to do it through Playon.

Thanks