where is the pop-out??

[almy]

Last week I got a 65" Panasonic VT50 3-D television that is being used with an OPPO BDP93 player with signals all going thru HDMI (along with Pioneer Elite a/v receiver). Very satisfied in general but see very little "in-your face" 3-D pop-out effects. Sad to say the only real in-your-face effect is on a 3-D porn disc (no, it is not a human organ - just a yardstick long twig that really seems to be inches away from my eyes). In AVATAR I do see those pimk spidery things seemingly hanging between me and the TV screen, but scenes in a variety of movies (AMAZING SPIDERMAN, TOP GUN, DARKEST HOUR) that one would expect to pop-out seem to come to the edge of screen and go no further. The effect of depth is fine, but I'm looking for things that make the viewer jump - think the paddle ball scene in the old HOUSE OF WAX. Am I doing something wrong, expecting too much or is this the way many 3-D releases are made? Thanks