Onkyo 805 sound problem

[NeverHappy]

I have an onkyo 805 connected to a panasonic bd-30 using an hc1500 front projector for display and definitve tech cinema pro 1000's. I just did the audissey sound calibration thing with the mic and after the calibration was complete and calculated it turned all my speakers down to -5db fronts and center. it set the rears to -.05 and set my subwoofer to -4.5 my fronts were crossed over at 100hz the center @ 125hz and the rears @ 70hz. Is this ok I almost feel that it sounded better before the calibration. Any advice please. I don't think I'm getting optimal sound and there is no bass coming from my sub. Also I have to crank the volume way up to like 60 or 65 for regular dialog and then when the action kicks in I find my self turning it down a bit cuz it gets really loud. It sucks to ave to watch a movie while holding on to the remote for 2 hours of continuos adjustments Please help. Thank you.