The "What's on your mind?" thread

[Scarface32]

Originally Posted by Samus Aran

I have someone's Netflix account on my TV for the time being, and going through their movie listings, I have to say the amount of titles they boast is all about quantity, not quality. So much direct-to-video crap scattered among the known titles, and even half of those known titles are crap. It's like browsing a Blockbuster Video in the 90s, only with less skin flicks and more of everything else.

The stuff they’ve watched, or the stuff in their queue?

[sk33tr]

Originally Posted by Samus Aran

I have someone's Netflix account on my TV for the time being, and going through their movie listings, I have to say the amount of titles they boast is all about quantity, not quality. So much direct-to-video crap scattered among the known titles, and even half of those known titles are crap. It's like browsing a Blockbuster Video in the 90s, only with less skin flicks and more of everything else.

maybe that's what they like to watch.

i watch plenty of stuff that others would think the same of; but i don't care 'cause it's what i like.

[Samus Aran]

Originally Posted by Scarface32

The stuff they’ve watched, or the stuff in their queue?

No, I'm talking about Netflix itself. The sheer volume of crappy movies is insane.

I don't have Netflix, so I was browsing through it to see what all they offer.

[philzilla]

Originally Posted by sk33tr

maybe that's what they like to watch.

i watch plenty of stuff that others would think the same of; but i don't care 'cause it's what i like.

What are you doing? Go get a job. But if not and you're ready to sell some of your shit, hit me up. I've been looking at your stuff. Where in Alabama are you, I'll come get it.

[Scarface32]

Marriage test from the 1930s. Try it with your spouse for fun.

http://twentytwowords.com/how-would-...marriage-test/

[Donnie D]

aimless

[jayman3]

Explain to me why a girl who's in a relationship would be leaning against me or pushing her hip into my crotch.

Like, she got a boyfriend of FOUR years but when we were out shopping for lunch after class, while walking, she'd continually bump into me or brush her arm against my side.

[Bullitt]

Originally Posted by jayman3

Explain to me why a girl who's in a relationship would be leaning against me or pushing her hip into my crotch.

Like, she got a boyfriend of FOUR years but when we were out shopping for lunch after class, while walking, she'd continually bump into me or brush her arm against my side.

She wants to bang ya.

[sk33tr]

Originally Posted by jayman3

Explain to me why a girl who's in a relationship would be leaning against me or pushing her hip into my crotch.

Like, she got a boyfriend of FOUR years but when we were out shopping for lunch after class, while walking, she'd continually bump into me or brush her arm against my side.

why not just ask her?

we can't possibly know why she'd be doing something like that. so just ask her.

[Scarface32]

Originally Posted by jayman3

Explain to me why a girl who's in a relationship would be leaning against me or pushing her hip into my crotch.

Like, she got a boyfriend of FOUR years but when we were out shopping for lunch after class, while walking, she'd continually bump into me or brush her arm against my side.

That right there is why I’m single. Can’t trust women not to cheat. She obviously is displaying signs of someone that cheats. And obviously she wants you and is using small hints to get your attention.

[jayman3]

Originally Posted by Bullitt

She wants to bang ya.

I wish...young 20 year old...a man can dream...

Originally Posted by sk33tr

why not just ask her?

we can't possibly know why she'd be doing something like that. so just ask her.

I would feel awkward asking because what if she did it unintentionally?

Originally Posted by Scarface32

That right there is why I’m single. Can’t trust women not to cheat. She obviously is displaying signs of someone that cheats. And obviously she wants you and is using small hints to get your attention.

See, she's been with her BF for 4 years, so that's commitment. But she's said there are times where she wishes she weren't in a relationship. Then talks about how she is loyal to him and never cheat.

[Himmel]

Originally Posted by jayman3

I wish...young 20 year old...a man can dream...

I would feel awkward asking because what if she did it unintentionally?


See, she's been with her BF for 4 years, so that's commitment. But she's said there are times where she wishes she weren't in a relationship. Then talks about how she is loyal to him and never cheat.

Be careful if she's screwing around, the boyfriend may be setting you up to get beat down cause he doesn't like you hanging around her.

[sk33tr]

Originally Posted by jayman3

I wish...young 20 year old...a man can dream...

I would feel awkward asking because what if she did it unintentionally?


See, she's been with her BF for 4 years, so that's commitment. But she's said there are times where she wishes she weren't in a relationship. Then talks about how she is loyal to him and never cheat.

awkward or not, unintentional or not, at least you'd know.

there are way more awkward things in life than to worry about why someone did something.

if it was truly unintentional, no harm done. if it was done because she likes you, and already has a boyfriend, might want to stay in the friend zone. if she decides to cheat on her current boyfriend, what's to stop her form cheating on the next one? and if that next one is you, well....

[Scarface32]

Originally Posted by Scarriere

Men cheat more than women do.

That’s just a stereotype, when a study was done about it, the split was closer to 50% for both.

[Erzengel]

Originally Posted by Scarface32

That right there is why I’m single. Can’t trust women not to cheat. She obviously is displaying signs of someone that cheats. And obviously she wants you and is using small hints to get your attention.

Of course this is just for married couples.

[Scarface32]

Originally Posted by Erzengel

[Show spoiler]

Of course this is just for married couples.

My preferred age for women is 25-30 and if you look at that age range on the chart you just posted, the gap isn’t very big. Women in that age range are more at risk of cheating than older ones. The last two girlfriends I had both cheated on me, so that’s why now I keep it casual so there are no expectations and I don’t get hurt.

[sk33tr]

Originally Posted by Erzengel

[Show spoiler]

Of course this is just for married couples.

to me, the most important part of that chart is the second line at the top.

"% who reported having sex with someone other than spouse while married"

what about those that did NOT report it? you can liken it to crime stats. the number of crimes NOT reported is probably so high that it would seem unbelievable if they were added to the umber of crimes that WERE reported.

[Erzengel]

But that's any poll, you won't get 100% transparency on any topic.

I tend to say that it's at least 50/50 or more towards men. Obviously that poll I posted, shows it's more towards men as they get older.

I just don't feel that the whole women can't be trusted should reinforced. And I'm not saying this particularly at Scarface but if say you've been with 4-5 women and they all cheated on you. Is it more likely that all women cheat or maybe you are picking crappy women?

[sk33tr]

i will say this...

if i was ever with a woman and she cheated on me, i'd be gone. i don't stand for shit like that. if you can't remain loyal to me or the relationship, then there is no relationship.

my only 2 big rules in a relationship are: 1) don't cheat, and, 2) don't lie. i don't do those things and i expect the same in return.

[Head bugs]

I'm looking into Typewriters and stocking up on vodka. It's time to work with the insanity, rather than against it.