anyone here got friendzoned?? - Blu-ray Forum

Fortion · 09-14-2013, 05:42 PM

so the miserable prople please share your stories how and why you people get friendzoned!!

Blu-Dog · 09-15-2013, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Fortion

so the miserable prople please share your stories how and why you people get friendzoned!!

Why worry about it? Is your world getting too small? How can you be in a "zone" in a world with six billiong human beings on it?

The world is not a prison, or a situation comedy too cheap to hire a bigger cast.

Fortion · 09-15-2013, 05:21 PM

but you love only a single person and if you get friendzoned by her or him then you definitly feel it

Blu-Dog · 09-16-2013, 04:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Fortion

but you love only a single person and if you get friendzoned by her or him then you definitly feel it

Even a horse wearing blinders can turn its head and look in a different direction. People are not horses.

And no one creates zones. They build walls. Climb it, knock it down, or p*** on it and find a nicer place. The world is not a prison.

HyperRealist · 09-16-2013, 04:24 AM

No I have never been "friendzoned." I'm not even sure what that means but I think it only happens to chumps.

supersix4 · 09-16-2013, 04:27 AM

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Originally Posted by HyperRealist

No I have never been "friendzoned." I'm not even sure what that means but I think it only happens to chumps.

It means when you meet a girl/ you're trying to put in work to get some you get labeled as someone who will NEVER get sex, but you aren't a big enough creeper that you get blocked, but you are good enough to be a "friend"

PopcornBandit · 09-16-2013, 11:12 AM

I have. It was my fault though. I waited much too long to ask her out and trust me, I had plenty of opportunities to do so. And now I'm the guy she comes crying to when her boyfriend(s) break up with her.

R3P0 · 09-16-2013, 11:46 AM

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I have. It was my fault though. I waited much too long to ask her out and trust me, I had plenty of opportunities to do so. And now I'm the guy she comes crying to when her boyfriend(s) break up with her.

I here ya there, told mine that if she played that game I wasn't gonna stick around and watch her get shit on that was 15 years ago haven't spoken to her since. She destroyed me emotionally but whatever that's life.

Fortion · 09-16-2013, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by PopcornBandit

I have. It was my fault though. I waited much too long to ask her out and trust me, I had plenty of opportunities to do so. And now I'm the guy she comes crying to when her boyfriend(s) break up with her.

finally someone with neutral mind... otherwise all the people commenting are too judgyyy!!

PopcornBandit · 09-16-2013, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Fortion

finally someone with neutral mind... otherwise all the people commenting are too judgyyy!!

I try not to dwell on what could have been but I gotta admit, it's hard sometimes. I don't want to completely cut her out of my life because I do enjoy spending time with her, but just knowing it can't go any further than "just friends" hurts.

Beachguy · 09-16-2013, 05:38 PM

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I try not to dwell on what could have been but I gotta admit, it's hard sometimes. I don't want to completely cut her out of my life because I do enjoy spending time with her, but just knowing it can't go any further than "just friends" hurts.

As long as she's not just using you to go to when something goes wrong -- or when she sees it fit. Basically, she comes to you when nothing else is going on but is always too busy for you when something is going on.

Does she make time for you or does she only come for you when something goes wrong in her life?

I say, if she's being a good friend you might want to keep her. If she's just using you as convenient to make herself feel better, you might want to toss her.

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Weird girls like "May" (for anyone who sees that movie) tend to come on to me, so I have to keep... the "I don't exist anymore zone."

I don't want to end up tied to some nutty girl's bed for two years till I'm rescued by my Army brother.

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Girls I think are cute and someone I would like to know are girls like Daphne Oz (The Chew) and Sarah Michelle Gellar -- girls who I know won't be a threat to me. Just examples.

twinkie · 09-16-2013, 06:41 PM

yeah, i have. it's usually because i took too long, didn't gave the right impression, she was only being friendly, she had someone in mind, etc. every girl is different to a point that i just don't care anymore.

you can't be friendzoned if you walk away or freeze them out. don't settle for less than you deserve and don't give them your time. they only get the late hours if you ever think of "hanging out" (9pm-10pm or later)

xander · 09-16-2013, 08:08 PM

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Originally Posted by supersix4

It means when you meet a girl/ you're trying to put in work to get some you get labeled as someone who will NEVER get sex, but you aren't a big enough creeper that you get blocked, but you are good enough to be a "friend"

He knows what it means, just being an internet tough guy.

dallywhitty · 09-16-2013, 10:49 PM

I think guys whine too much about being 'friend-zoned.' If the woman's not sexually attracted to you, she's not sexually attracted to you. If you're that displeased by the notion of being her friend, go off and find someone who's willing.

By the way, my girlfriend and I were friends for about six months prior to entering a relationship, so it's not like you can't be friends first.

09-14-2013, 05:42 PM	#1
Fortion Expert Member Member since:Jul 2013	anyone here got friendzoned?? so the miserable prople please share your stories how and why you people get friendzoned!!

09-16-2013, 11:12 AM	#7
PopcornBandit Blu-ray Samurai Member since:Nov 2011 Location:SC 4K collection:139 Blu-ray collection:508 DVD collection:33 Trading Score:366	I have. It was my fault though. I waited much too long to ask her out and trust me, I had plenty of opportunities to do so. And now I'm the guy she comes crying to when her boyfriend(s) break up with her. Last edited by PopcornBandit; 09-16-2013 at 11:14 AM.

09-15-2013, 05:21 PM	#3
Fortion Expert Member Member since:Jul 2013	but you love only a single person and if you get friendzoned by her or him then you definitly feel it

09-16-2013, 04:24 AM	#5
HyperRealist Blu-ray Ninja Top contributor Member since:Nov 2009 Location:PA Blu-ray collection:110 DVD collection:96 Trading Score:48	No I have never been "friendzoned." I'm not even sure what that means but I think it only happens to chumps.

09-16-2013, 06:41 PM	#12
twinkie Expert Member Member since:Nov 2009 Location:Montreal, Blu-Ray Steelbooks™: 21 Blu-ray collection:85 Trading Score:1	yeah, i have. it's usually because i took too long, didn't gave the right impression, she was only being friendly, she had someone in mind, etc. every girl is different to a point that i just don't care anymore. you can't be friendzoned if you walk away or freeze them out. don't settle for less than you deserve and don't give them your time. they only get the late hours if you ever think of "hanging out" (9pm-10pm or later)

09-16-2013, 10:49 PM	#14
dallywhitty Blu-ray Grand Duke Top contributor Member since:Aug 2009 Location:Temple of Isis 4K collection:319 Blu-ray collection:1680 DVD collection:178	I think guys whine too much about being 'friend-zoned.' If the woman's not sexually attracted to you, she's not sexually attracted to you. If you're that displeased by the notion of being her friend, go off and find someone who's willing. By the way, my girlfriend and I were friends for about six months prior to entering a relationship, so it's not like you can't be friends first.

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