I need some words of encouragement

[Moviefan1203]

Earlier this week my Mom began to have severe neck and upper back pain. She went through a lot of medical tests, and it became known that she has a bulging disc that is pinching the nerves along her spinal cord. Each day this week she became worse and worse. At this point she can't walk, my Dad has to carry her wherever she goes. She is scheduled for surgery Wednesday morning, but the insurance company is fighting it. They are recommending physical therapy instead even though her surgeon and hospital as well as the hospital's lawyers are trying to get them to reverse their decision. If the hospital doesn't get approval from the insurance company by Tuesday afternoon, they are postponing the surgery indefinitely even though the surgeon says every day matters. This week has literally been the worst week of my life. I am beyond frustrated and feel as though I am hitting rock bottom.

[Navster]

Sorry to hear that , wish your mom and your family the best...

[memovieaddict]

Originally Posted by Moviefan1203

Earlier this week my Mom began to have severe neck and upper back pain. She went through a lot of medical tests, and it became known that she has a bulging disc that is pinching the nerves along her spinal cord. Each day this week she became worse and worse. At this point she can't walk, my Dad has to carry her wherever she goes. She is scheduled for surgery Wednesday morning, but the insurance company is fighting it. They are recommending physical therapy instead even though her surgeon and hospital as well as the hospital's lawyers are trying to get them to reverse their decision. If the hospital doesn't get approval from the insurance company by Tuesday afternoon, they are postponing the surgery indefinitely even though the surgeon says every day matters. This week has literally been the worst week of my life. I am beyond frustrated and feel as though I am hitting rock bottom.

I'll include your mom in my prayers. Stay strong and try not to show your mom how this is affecting you; she needs all the support right now and showing her that you're emotionally strong is going to make it better for her. Also, I'd recommend going to a public library and check if they have free lawyer consultation there. Do a lot of research so that you can show the insurance company that you know your mom's rights. There might even be books you can borrow about this so motivate yourself to read and educate yourself as to what rights your mom has regarding her condition. Lastly, just pray for her and be on her side. You're a caring son and I'm sure she appreciates that!

I just want to let you know that I know what you're feeling. My dog is sick again and I was just in the hospital this afternoon. I am unemployed right now and have no income. It'll cost $2000-$4000 just for a rhinoscopy. It's killing me having to go home unable to afford my dog's treatment because I'm still in so much debt since he had cancer last year. All I can do now is to be there for my dog even though it's killing me inside.

Anyway, take care of your mom and I'm sure she'll have a successful surgery.

[Villiam Hayes]

Be strong for your mum,I lost mine to cancer over two years ago and it was tough from she was diagnosed,I sure hope everything turn's out ok for you and your family.

[Moviefan1203]

Thanks guys.

[Moefiz]

Take it easy, don't let yourself get too bum out by it...its hard when your love one's are sick but unfortunately we can't do anything, but pray that things will work itself out..I am sure your Mom will be OK and the surgery will go ahead has plan.

[nefilim]

insurance companies suck.

have faith. and be strong - that is what your mother needs from you right now. and speak w/ your father about your/his feelings, bet he has hard time too ... give each other slap in the back.

[Blackshield]

I hope things work out for your mom. It sounds horrible and I feel for everyone that has to go threw any pain as a result of insurance company neglect.

I know exactly what your going threw I think everyone experiences these frustrations unfortunately so your not alone. My ex wife was in a major car accident years ago and seriously injured. when our insurance company decided it was tired of paying for treatment it said go see our doctor or your cutoff 100% so she did and he said it was all in her mind. I know for a fact even now that were not together etc. that she was suffering daily. People like this where the bottom dollar means more will have karma back on them 10 fold.

Right now My girlfriends mom is in her 3 month of pneumonia, being out of the hospital for 2 months because she got to the point where they said she was at a certain % recovered so she no longer qualified for hospital subsidy and had to start paying if she wanted to remain (she's on old age pension fixed income). Now she can barely walk to the kitchen without being completely out of breath and run down. I just try to be a support as much as I can unfortunately there isn't much a person can do, her mom lives 3 hrs away and her husband is a do nothing, no help person and refuses to downsize despite being over 80. The whole situation from a outsiders view is ridiculous.

[Anthony P]

Originally Posted by Moviefan1203

If the hospital doesn't get approval from the insurance company by Tuesday afternoon, they are postponing the surgery indefinitely even though the surgeon says every day matters.

It sucks when greed gets in the way, good luck and I hope that everything works out for the best.

[Col. Zombie]

The insurance cartels are simply the worst.

I am praying for your mom and for the family.