The Dating Advice Thread

[imsounoriginal]

I can't vouch for how good the movie is, just thought I'd let you know lol

The other girl's name is Ileana D'Cruz. Easily one of my favorites in recent years, at least in terms of looks (she's an OK actress from what I've seen).

[civiclx]

Originally Posted by imsounoriginal

I can't vouch for how good the movie is, just thought I'd let you know lol

The other girl's name is Ileana D'Cruz. Easily one of my favorites in recent years, at least in terms of looks (she's an OK actress from what I've seen).

We don't care about their acting, only their looks How is the movie? I hope it's not Baad as the title suggests I'm about to look it up right now.

Edit: I IMDb'ed the film, saw her as one of the top billed cast members and checked her profile pic out. I thought it was aight and then I googled her and daaaayum lol Loving the hips

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[imsounoriginal]

Yeah she can get it. Neither of them are super-huge in Bollywood though, especially your avatar. I honestly don't think I've ever seen a movie of hers.

Anyway, if you're into Indian girls, get on this dating app called Dil Mil. People on there tend to look for long-term stuff more than just casual things; dunno what you're looking for but you might find someone you like.

[civiclx]

Originally Posted by imsounoriginal

Yeah she can get it. Neither of them are super-huge in Bollywood though, especially your avatar. I honestly don't think I've ever seen a movie of hers.

Anyway, if you're into Indian girls, get on this dating app called Dil Mil. People on there tend to look for long-term stuff more than just casual things; dunno what you're looking for but you might find someone you like.

lol I'll have to check that site out. I actually joined an Indian dating site for fun but the account got deleted before I ever even used it. I have no idea why. I think it was shaadi.com and it too was for long term.

[imsounoriginal]

Yeah "shaadi" legit means "marriage," people on there aren't messing around lol

[hockeyshark91]

Originally Posted by civiclx

lol I'll have to check that site out. I actually joined an Indian dating site for fun but the account got deleted before I ever even used it. I have no idea why. I think it was shaadi.com and it too was for long term.

I'll give my co-worker your kindest and warmest regards this morning.
Never knew an Indian chick with her kind of curves. Very sweet gal too.

[civiclx]

Originally Posted by hockeyshark91

I'll give my co-worker your kindest and warmest regards this morning.
Never knew an Indian chick with her kind of curves. Very sweet gal too.

haha sounds good I haven't actually dated any...well any girls in a long time...but I've never dated an Indian girl but my last date was with an Indian girl and she was gorgeous. She was also 14 years younger than me

[Batman1980]

He says he's never dated an Indian girl but his last date was with an Indian girl. :cuckoo:

[civiclx]

Well I had a date with an Indian girl but I never dated her

[civiclx]

Will post again soon

[dallywhitty]

Originally Posted by civiclx

Well I had a date with an Indian girl but I never dated her

Huh?

[Batman1980]

Originally Posted by dallywhitty

Huh?

That's exactly what I said and he just said the same thing.

[civiclx]

I went out on a date with her. We never dated like as in a relationship. Only thing that can make a beautiful Indian girl better is a British accent

[jayman3]

Holy shit. I found my thread!

Boy, do I have a crapload of hilariously unlucky stories to tell.

Y'all are gonna laugh at my unfortunate life in the world of dating.

P.S. I'm a 24 year old virgin who's never gone on a date or kissed a girl.

[Monterey Jack]

Originally Posted by jayman3

P.S. I'm a 24 year old virgin who's never gone on a date or kissed a girl.

I've got 20 years on you, buddy.

[civiclx]

Originally Posted by jayman3

Holy shit. I found my thread!

Boy, do I have a crapload of hilariously unlucky stories to tell.

Y'all are gonna laugh at my unfortunate life in the world of dating.

P.S. I'm a 24 year old virgin who's never gone on a date or kissed a girl.

So like 75% of the members here then?

But seriously, that's ok. You're probably really shy and just need to put yourself out there

[jayman3]

I have had many opportunities where the moment of fornicating has offered itself to me, however the problem I mainly encounter is not being able to fulfill the woman's need as I turn their offer down. Out of nervousness.

Also, I have noticed most if not all women I ever grow an interest in, are in an established relationship. Like, where the hell are all the single ladies at?

Though, when I do find a single female, I'm constantly turned down. Their reasons include:

• Not interested
• Taking a break from relationships
• Just got out of a SERIOUS (5+yrs) relationship
• Want to be friends *ONLY*
• Are lesbian

Yet they all tell me how kind/caring of a guy I am. How funny of a person I can be. Or they enjoy the meaningful conversations between us, etc.

I don't know. Maybe I'm too nice of a person. I allow those to use/abuse me. I don't have an 'edge' to me that'd make women more interested.

Over time I have learned. I learned not to care. Don't give a f*ck. Be unfiltered and say what I mean. Put myself out there. Getting out of my comfort zone and becoming more sociable. Which helps with my anxiety.

I don't expect anything out of return from a woman. I'm not doing things to get a nice quickie or any other sexual services. Women don't owe me anything. I am simply there to show them a good time.

[Erzengel]

Originally Posted by jayman3

I have had many opportunities where the moment of fornicating has offered itself to me, however the problem I mainly encounter is not being able to fulfill the woman's need as I turn their offer down. Out of nervousness.

Also, I have noticed most if not all women I ever grow an interest in, are in an established relationship. Like, where the hell are all the single ladies at?

Though, when I do find a single female, I'm constantly turned down. Their reasons include:

• Not interested
• Taking a break from relationships
• Just got out of a SERIOUS (5+yrs) relationship
• Want to be friends *ONLY*
• Are lesbian

Yet they all tell me how kind/caring of a guy I am. How funny of a person I can be. Or they enjoy the meaningful conversations between us, etc.

I don't know. Maybe I'm too nice of a person. I allow those to use/abuse me. I don't have an 'edge' to me that'd make women more interested.

Over time I have learned. I learned not to care. Don't give a f*ck. Be unfiltered and say what I mean. Put myself out there. Getting out of my comfort zone and becoming more sociable. Which helps with my anxiety.

I don't expect anything out of return from a woman. I'm not doing things to get a nice quickie or any other sexual services. Women don't owe me anything. I am simply there to show them a good time.

It might just be an attraction thing. But don't take that the wrong way. You can ask 10 different women what they are looking for physically from a man and you may get like 10 different responses.

I just wouldn't invest so much time in anyone past a few outings. If you feel they are stringing you along, or being flaky on you, I'd bail. Move on to the next one.

[jayman3]

Originally Posted by Erzengel

It might just be an attraction thing. But don't take that the wrong way. You can ask 10 different women what they are looking for physically from a man and you may get like 10 different responses.

I just wouldn't invest so much time in anyone past a few outings. If you feel they are stringing you along, or being flaky on you, I'd bail. Move on to the next one.

Exactly. I'm an average looking guy. Ain't have no muscle build, and a definite 'baby face.'

I always thought those who looked for pysichal attractiveness were to be shallow. I dislike shallow people. Don't get me wrong, looks are a plus, but I'm more attracted to personality than a woman's body.

[Erzengel]

Originally Posted by jayman3

Exactly. I'm an average looking guy. Ain't have no muscle build, and a definite 'baby face.'

I always thought those who looked for pysichal attractiveness were to be shallow. I dislike shallow people. Don't get me wrong, looks are a plus, but I'm more attracted to personality than a woman's body.

I always said that personality can go a long way but attraction at least gets your foot in the door.

There's nothing wrong with wanting someone to be pleasant on the eyes.