The "What's on your mind?" thread

[jayman3]

Why do women constantly flaunt their chests wearing outfits that show deep cleavage, but chastise men for looking at them?

[sk33tr]

Originally Posted by jayman3

Why do women constantly flaunt their chests wearing outfits that show deep cleavage, but chastise men for looking at them?

yet if i walk around showing my ball cleavage, i get in trouble and somebody calls the cops.

hypocrites

[BWBODDY]

Originally Posted by jayman3

Why do women constantly flaunt their chests wearing outfits that show deep cleavage, but chastise men for looking at them?

Originally Posted by sk33tr

yet if i walk around showing my ball cleavage, i get in trouble and somebody calls the cops.

hypocrites

It's a catch 22, it is....

[BWBODDY]

Originally Posted by Scarface32

It’s been a while since I’ve seen it, but if I’m remembering it correctly doesn’t Bob stalk the shrink and try to "become" part of the family?

Death Therapy!!! .....

[Batman1980]

Originally Posted by jayman3

Why do women constantly flaunt their chests wearing outfits that show deep cleavage, but chastise men for looking at them?

What most of them really mean is thanks for looking but I have to at least pretend to be offended you were ogling me. I also bet it depends on whether or not they're attracted to the ogler. I know that's the way I am. I don't mind if attractive women stare, it's when the unattractive women stare that it bothers me.

[jayman3]

Originally Posted by Batman1980

What most of them really mean is thanks for looking but I have to at least pretend to be offended you were ogling me. I also bet it depends on whether or not they're attracted to the ogler. I know that's the way I am. I don't mind if attractive women stare, it's when the unattractive women stare that it bothers me.

I can agree. Women don't mind an attractive guy checking them out, but as soon as a glasses wearing dork like me undresses them with my eyes I get rude looks.

[BizCat]

Originally Posted by jayman3

I can agree. Women don't mind an attractive guy checking them out, but as soon as a glasses wearing dork like me undresses them with my eyes I get rude looks.

Well don't use your eyes, use your hands.

[Himmel]

Originally Posted by jayman3

I can agree. Women don't mind an attractive guy checking them out, but as soon as a glasses wearing dork like me undresses them with my eyes I get rude looks.

I told you what you need to do.

[Himmel]

Originally Posted by BizCat

Well don't use your eyes, use your hands.

Yeah, and get a swift slap, a loud scream, and then expelled from college.

[sk33tr]

Originally Posted by BizCat

Well don't use your eyes, use your hands.

Originally Posted by Himmel

Yeah, and get a swift slap, a loud scream, and then expelled from college.

just tell 'em you're blind and that's how you see.

[The_Donster]

Originally Posted by jayman3

Why do women constantly flaunt their chests wearing outfits that show deep cleavage, but chastise men for looking at them?

I think this is one of those, I'm getting too old for that shit. If a woman goes to that much work on their presentation I'm going to give them their propers like a gentleman.

Originally Posted by Scarface32

It’s been a while since I’ve seen it, but if I’m remembering it correctly doesn’t Bob stalk the shrink and try to "become" part of the family?

Go, rewatch the movie and if you still don't get the reference, get back to me

[dyne]

Originally Posted by jayman3

Why do women constantly flaunt their chests wearing outfits that show deep cleavage, but chastise men for looking at them?

DON'T VICTIM BLAME /s

[jayman3]

Originally Posted by dyne

DON'T VICTIM BLAME /s

No victim blaming here. We're not talking about rape or sexual harassment. Just plain old distracting visuals.

[RageATL]

Originally Posted by jayman3

No victim blaming here. We're not talking about rape or sexual harassment. Just plain old distracting visuals.

Just start wearing tight jeans to accentuate your twig and berries.

[BizCat]

Originally Posted by RageATL

Just start wearing tight jeans to accentuate your twig and berries.

[BizCat]

Not to be Debbie Downer or Negative Nancy..............

but I've been thinking about how my life was so fun during 2006- 2009. That was when I was working at Cedar Point. Of course I was 19 when I first started, and as a whole most are between the ages of 19-23. I know I tend to dwell on the past, because the present isn't fun, and the future... is bleak?

I went to a very small school growing up that I did not enjoy. I didn't have many friends, had a few closer ones, sort of. I didn't do the whole 2 or 4 year college thing like most do and make the most of it. (Went 2 years to a local community college before transferring my credits to a school that offered the program online). So, Cedar Point was my thing - it gave me freedom and a sense of a new beginning. I had friends, I felt like I belonged, and it overall was a great time.

But I last worked there in 2009 - that transition from a summer job to finding my career. And since then it's been back to the usual - hardly any friends. The people I got to know well at Cedar Point are out of the picture. I no longer matter nor exist.

We'd often go to a bar called Louie's. It was within walking distance from the employee dorms. Basically every Thursday and Sunday nights.. lol. All of today's music, cheap alcohol in big ass styrofoam cups, etc. I just wish I could go back to that scene, you know? Being.. I guess young, with friends, and being part of a crowd just enjoying the moment.

[Groot]

Originally Posted by BizCat

Not to be Debbie Downer or Negative Nancy..............

but I've been thinking about how my life was so fun during 2006- 2009. That was when I was working at Cedar Point. Of course I was 19 when I first started, and as a whole most are between the ages of 19-23. I know I tend to dwell on the past, because the present isn't fun, and the future... is bleak?

I went to a very small school growing up that I did not enjoy. I didn't have many friends, had a few closer ones, sort of. I didn't do the whole 2 or 4 year college thing like most do and make the most of it. (Went 2 years to a local community college before transferring my credits to a school that offered the program online). So, Cedar Point was my thing - it gave me freedom and a sense of a new beginning. I had friends, I felt like I belonged, and it overall was a great time.

But I last worked there in 2009 - that transition from a summer job to finding my career. And since then it's been back to the usual - hardly any friends. The people I got to know well at Cedar Point are out of the picture. I no longer matter nor exist.

We'd often go to a bar called Louie's. It was within walking distance from the employee dorms. Basically every Thursday and Sunday nights.. lol. All of today's music, cheap alcohol in big ass styrofoam cups, etc. I just wish I could go back to that scene, you know? Being.. I guess young, with friends, and being part of a crowd just enjoying the moment.

[Show spoiler]

Aren't you married with kids? Sounds like you're just stressed about being tied down to your life - which apparently a lot of people go through. Make new friends, albeit a different way, and appreciate where you are now.

[Infrared Sight]

Originally Posted by BizCat

Not to be Debbie Downer or Negative Nancy..............

but I've been thinking about how my life was so fun during 2006- 2009. That was when I was working at Cedar Point. Of course I was 19 when I first started, and as a whole most are between the ages of 19-23. I know I tend to dwell on the past, because the present isn't fun, and the future... is bleak?

I went to a very small school growing up that I did not enjoy. I didn't have many friends, had a few closer ones, sort of. I didn't do the whole 2 or 4 year college thing like most do and make the most of it. (Went 2 years to a local community college before transferring my credits to a school that offered the program online). So, Cedar Point was my thing - it gave me freedom and a sense of a new beginning. I had friends, I felt like I belonged, and it overall was a great time.

But I last worked there in 2009 - that transition from a summer job to finding my career. And since then it's been back to the usual - hardly any friends. The people I got to know well at Cedar Point are out of the picture. I no longer matter nor exist.

We'd often go to a bar called Louie's. It was within walking distance from the employee dorms. Basically every Thursday and Sunday nights.. lol. All of today's music, cheap alcohol in big ass styrofoam cups, etc. I just wish I could go back to that scene, you know? Being.. I guess young, with friends, and being part of a crowd just enjoying the moment.

When I was 19-27ish was the best darn years of my life. I was having fun with friends and just not caring about what happened next which made it great. It seems these days, even though I'm at the same job that I just can't really connect with people and have really great friends anymore for some reason. People say that I'm their friend and we'll hang out from time to time, but it is always me wanting to hang out with them. I haven't gotten a call/text to hang out in a few years and it drives me nuts. i've taken up mountain biking over the last few years to get out and do something fun and that's been great, but it's still great to have friends and I wish my 'friends' would be there you know?

[BizCat]

Originally Posted by Groot

Aren't you married with kids? Sounds like you're just stressed about being tied down to your life - which apparently a lot of people go through. Make new friends, albeit a different way, and appreciate where you are now.

Yes I am.

[BizCat]

Originally Posted by Infrared Sight

When I was 19-27ish was the best darn years of my life. I was having fun with friends and just not caring about what happened next which made it great. It seems these days, even though I'm at the same job that I just can't really connect with people and have really great friends anymore for some reason. People say that I'm their friend and we'll hang out from time to time, but it is always me wanting to hang out with them. I haven't gotten a call/text to hang out in a few years and it drives me nuts. i've taken up mountain biking over the last few years to get out and do something fun and that's been great, but it's still great to have friends and I wish my 'friends' would be there you know?

Exactly the same boat.