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Originally Posted by fighthefutureofhd
There's nothing wrong with one night stands. No faith truly believes you will burn in h--l for all eternity if you have them. Just like the fact you won't go blind from poking your cannoli. That's just what religions want you to believe. But the man himself don't care. He's probably like, heck yeah dude. go for it. Divorcing yourself emotionally from the physical act of s-- is no big deal. I mean, you divorce the emotional from the physical when you're playing with your organ grinder. Do you have emotional feelings when you go to the restroom. Having inter----se is just another physical thing our body does and sometimes needs that really isn't emotional. Besides, we're talking about SE-. It's not like we're talking about love making. It's a romp in the hey. There is nothing emotional about that. Doing the horizontal limbo with someone and making two bodies connect to make sweet, sweet melodies like the ones made from playing an electric guitar are two different things. Though you can have both together and it still doesn't mean there is emotion involved. Passion is not a dirty 7 letter word. Let me put this way, If I'm not super hung up on se- and all that, then anyone can be. Cause trust me, I HAVE my hangups with S-X. But it's not for any of the reasons you mentioned. it's not as hard as you think (that's what she said).
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Well, I respectfully disagree on your spiritual comments, and as for the emotional component I can only speak of my very limited experience. Physically, my ex and I had a tremendous love life...but the problem was that after a while, we just kept fighting about everything else. In the beginning, there was mutual trust and real intimacy, but after a while I felt like she was emotionally pulling away, and that truly bothered me. While I don't deny that I enjoyed her body, what I wanted even more was her heart...and I couldn't understand why she suddenly started putting so many walls up. Repeated conflicts about that is one of the many things which ultimately drove us apart, and I swore to myself afterward that I would never make such a mistake again.