What happened at your bachelor party?

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Originally Posted by Moefiz

OK..where should I start....If you get a knob job at you bachelor party
..that would be consider a "freebie" as you call it..can you face your intended wife the day after knowing that you got a freebie the night before..Would you tell her?...not a good way to start a marriage my friend, what would stop you 6 months or even a year down the road to get another"freebie".

Well I think most wives assume probably something happened at the bachelor party. As for after you are married, just don't tell your wife.

And if you aren't comfortable with an anything goes freebie, just experience the grinding. At strip clubs in my area, especially some of the juice clubs, the dancers will dance on your lap, like with full contact. So even if nothing sexual happens, you can sometimes get stress relieved on accident ... and if it's an accident even if your wife or gf finds out they can't complain about it.

Some of the clubs have rooms for just you and the dancer, some even with a locked door ... so no one would find out anyway.

The way I see it, sex is nothing special. Like say your gf is a flutist but you just like hearing the french horn better. IMO your gf should be okay with you going to hear someone play the french horn. Your relationship with your gf is about more than her flute playing. Ditto for sex. Some people can't even have sex but they can still have romantic relationships. The reason we all still have this hang up about sex is b/c of evolution. Evolution caused us to have jealous genes (by being jealous we promote our genes being better propagated in the gene pool). Once we realize the evolutionary origins of our feelings, we should be able to act more rationally and be generous with our sexuality. Strippers IMO are a good model of generosity.

I have friends who work in the business so I guess I might be biased.

Strippers sometimes give me their phone number ... one I met just for one lap dance and after it she gave me her number ... but unfortunately I lost it ... I should ask for it again. Strippers will also often meet you off the clock. They are my favorite people in the world.