Anybody seen escorts or other kinds of sex workers?

[Moviefan2k4]

Originally Posted by fighthefutureofhd

There's nothing wrong with one night stands. No faith truly believes you will burn in h--l for all eternity if you have them. Just like the fact you won't go blind from poking your cannoli. That's just what religions want you to believe. But the man himself don't care. He's probably like, heck yeah dude. go for it. Divorcing yourself emotionally from the physical act of s-- is no big deal. I mean, you divorce the emotional from the physical when you're playing with your organ grinder. Do you have emotional feelings when you go to the restroom. Having inter----se is just another physical thing our body does and sometimes needs that really isn't emotional. Besides, we're talking about SE-. It's not like we're talking about love making. It's a romp in the hey. There is nothing emotional about that. Doing the horizontal limbo with someone and making two bodies connect to make sweet, sweet melodies like the ones made from playing an electric guitar are two different things. Though you can have both together and it still doesn't mean there is emotion involved. Passion is not a dirty 7 letter word. Let me put this way, If I'm not super hung up on se- and all that, then anyone can be. Cause trust me, I HAVE my hangups with S-X. But it's not for any of the reasons you mentioned. it's not as hard as you think (that's what she said).

Well, I respectfully disagree on your spiritual comments, and as for the emotional component I can only speak of my very limited experience. Physically, my ex and I had a tremendous love life...but the problem was that after a while, we just kept fighting about everything else. In the beginning, there was mutual trust and real intimacy, but after a while I felt like she was emotionally pulling away, and that truly bothered me. While I don't deny that I enjoyed her body, what I wanted even more was her heart...and I couldn't understand why she suddenly started putting so many walls up. Repeated conflicts about that is one of the many things which ultimately drove us apart, and I swore to myself afterward that I would never make such a mistake again.

[Moviefan2k4]

When my Mom passed 9 years ago, one of her sisters said she loved the water...to which my reaction was, "Since when?!" I remembered that both she and my Grandma had taught me to swim was I was a kid, but for most of my life after that she stayed away from both pools and the ocean.

[TheSaunderschild1993]

Yeah. It normally states that in the leaflet.

[Lemmy Lugosi]

Having been in several bands since the late 1970’s, then being a professional roadie, a radio disc jockey, and then managed a few good bands, I have seen and done and been involved in some things. Even paid for some. And that is that. I’m not talking about any Diddy-level stuff, just general rock and roll debauchery. Now you must excuse me; I’m preparing to go look at yet another guitar, about an hour away.

[fighthefutureofhd]

Spend your money on escorts to come over and watch horror movies with. That way you get the best of both worlds. Sure beats a hair cleaning fetish.

[MrHT]

Originally Posted by fighthefutureofhd

Spend your money on escorts to come over and watch horror movies with. That way you get the best of both worlds. Sure beats a hair cleaning fetish.

Since this is a Blu-ray.com forum, I will say this. Can you imagine how many BDs you can buy if you used your money for that instead of a sex worker? Heck, you can probably get yourself a nice 4K BD player with that money!

[fighthefutureofhd]

Originally Posted by MrHT

Since this is a Blu-ray.com forum, I will say this. Can you imagine how many BDs you can buy if you used your money for that instead of a sex worker? Heck, you can probably get yourself a nice 4K BD player with that money!

Not hardly. The best you could probably do is get an LG or a low end Sony 4K BD player. The average cost for sex workers is about $200.000. Now, sure, you can get a lot of BDs with that. Bearing in mind they're on sale. Otherwise, you'd probably be only able to get 6 or 7. It's a common misconception that paying for escorts/sex workers is expensive. When it's really not. In fact, it's about the price for really good massages. In some cases anyway. And the price never exceeds $300. Mind you, that is for a hour or two. Of course, you will pay a pretty penny for an overnight, but who wants that?

[MrHT]

Originally Posted by fighthefutureofhd

Not hardly. The best you could probably do is get an LG or a low end Sony 4K BD player. The average cost for sex workers is about $200.000. Now, sure, you can get a lot of BDs with that. Bearing in mind they're on sale. Otherwise, you'd probably be only able to get 6 or 7. It's a common misconception that paying for escorts/sex workers is expensive. When it's really not. In fact, it's about the price for really good massages. In some cases anyway. And the price never exceeds $300. Mind you, that is for a hour or two. Of course, you will pay a pretty penny for an overnight, but who wants that?

But think of how many BDs you could buy for $200. And $200 seems kind of low for a sex worker. I imagine you would probably get low quality, rushed service for that price.

[Moviefan2k4]

Originally Posted by TheSaunderschild1993

I'm at a crossroads.

Do I waste my money on escorts, or more horror films, then get called a hoarder?

At least the latter provides more enjoyment. But I guess there is no point in collecting them forever. Old Blu-rays are being replaced with 4K and all that, but my flat would end up with too many boxes. I have nearly every top ten film in history (no lie, I even know the papers with the gross reports), and buying a top 40 collection could be costly and pointless.

I could just stream them, I guess. Why waste £150 or more on somebody that may or may not make me feel like a dork? It's a sad reality, being autustic and lonely, but having so few people to give me the time of day.

This is why hobbies feel pointless now. Years of pouring knowledge of bands and films and games into my head, but then people being like, "Oh... he's a nerd with no life".

It's a life nonetheless.

As a fellow autistic person myself and an introvert as well, I can assure you there is no inherent shame in that. It can get lonely not having any real-world friends, but if you believe in God I'd suggest trying out a couple of churches, and seeing how they treat you as a person. Contrary to popular belief, not everyone who has faith possesses a self-righteous or "holier than thou" attitude; the folks at my local place sure don't. Its just a suggestion; do with it what you will.

[TheSaunderschild1993]

Maybe I just need to budget more.

Nae women. Not good. :P

[TheSaunderschild1993]

Precisely.

I had one being arrogant to me yesterday. Never again. I concede.

[TheSaunderschild1993]

You'd be surprised. I see women gloating about their overnight bookings on X and what the sugar daddy sorts and "simps" paid for them, all the time. Along with bragging about what restaurants they went to with their clannish circle. That's okay for some. And if anything, it helps to build up a status for their ego.

In fact, some even want a tribute through a money app or a gift wish enabled platform first before they will even decide to give you the time of day. Although to be fair, they just want to deter the sort of people who commonly muck them about. Time is money, as they say. And sometimes they have lost earnings because somebody didn't turn up, ghosted them, or whatever. So I suppose they incorporated that rule for this reason.

I think it's half and half, though. Them being wary of morons and them also being pretentious, and greedy to the core. Because you need only look at their feed on X full of whining to get the gist of their personality. It's usually rather narcissistic. But at the same time, who the hell covers the cost of their catering, clothing, hotel bookings, and whatnot? So maybe they should be appreciative of the simps that shelled out all of that dough to begin with.

[TheSaunderschild1993]

Glenn Frey was on Miami Vice once. I like the video for "Smuggler's Blues".

*Customs officers look through luggage for drugs.

What do we got?

We got garbage!

[fighthefutureofhd]

Originally Posted by MrHT

But think of how many BDs you could buy for $200. And $200 seems kind of low for a sex worker. I imagine you would probably get low quality, rushed service for that price.

Not at all. $200 will get you about an hour or so and it never feels rushed. How much time do you need anyway? An hour is plenty of time. I don't believe these dudes that say they can go for hours. An hour is perfect and plenty of time.

Originally Posted by Moviefan2k4

Yeah, it would be like something out of Blue Streak - "Wham, bam, thank you officer!"

Not at all. The time is about an hour or so and it is not rushed. But then, you are hiring an escort. What are you expecting it to be? It's not a date. You paid to sleep with them. WHAM, BAM, GOODBYE. Generally speaking. Some people pay an escort to come over and just talk. You get out of it what you want to get out of it. You're in control.

[Moviefan2k4]

Originally Posted by fighthefutureofhd

Not at all. The time is about an hour or so and it is not rushed. But then, you are hiring an escort. What are you expecting it to be? It's not a date. You paid to sleep with them. WHAM, BAM, GOODBYE. Generally speaking. Some people pay an escort to come over and just talk. You get out of it what you want to get out of it. You're in control.

Well, thank God I've never hired anyone to have sex with me, because in reality I could never separate the emotional aspects from the physical. I believe that such a union should be an expression of love that already exists, not a search for it otherwise.

[MrHT]

Originally Posted by Moviefan2k4

Well, thank God I've never hired anyone to have sex with me, because in reality I could never separate the emotional aspects from the physical. I believe that such a union should be an expression of love that already exists, not a search for it otherwise.

fighthefutureofhd seems to know what he's talking about. So we should listen to him. Apparently, everything I'm saying is wrong and what he's saying is right.

[TheSaunderschild1993]

What I meant was, that I am used to how they are. So, yes. It can be irritating, but it is best to not show them it bothers you. Because I think they enjoy having a superiority complex.

I still don't get why they block someone on social media just for basically leaving a comment. It's not like you were trying to waste their time. But what is so social about X anyway? People demand attention, then when they get it, they're still not happy.

I cannot grasp that concept. They're just too narcissistic.

[Moviefan2k4]

Originally Posted by TheSaunderschild1993

I still don't get why they block someone on social media just for basically leaving a comment. It's not like you were trying to waste their time. But what is so social about X anyway? People demand attention, then when they get it, they're still not happy.

I cannot grasp that concept. They're just too narcissistic.

Welcome to the world, my friend. People all across the planet have been this way, almost since the beginning of humanity itself. The biggest difference over the past 30 years is that now, every idiot with a digital device has an automatic platform; it brought a lot of worms out of the woodwork.

[TheSaunderschild1993]

Screw 'em without screwing 'em.

[Monterey Jack]

Tried it once, it didn't work, have never tried since.