Anybody seen escorts or other kinds of sex workers?

[TheSaunderschild1993]

I know of a site where you basically place a booking. They will go to your address as an 'out call', or you attend accommodation where they are.

The thing is, I just think a lot of them have a bad attitude, so I seldomly even get to the meeting stage. Like, if you message them on AW, just trying to be nice, chatty or whimsical, it seems to invariably bore or annoy them. Now I know they probably aren't really into small talk or dirty back and forth comments, despite egging you on a bit. But it is amazing just how cold they are. I've messaged countless users on AW, and only a few are ever nice.

If you join their OnlyFans too, the golden rule is that you do not ask for sessions. At all. It is just against their policy. But then users on it start to bombard you with pay-to-see clips. Often just brief or boring ones. And in some cases, their free videos on X are surprisingly better. Some of their paid content has their face hidden as well, so I have to question why anyone would care if they show it on X but not on their other platforms. But they just constantly bug you to tip them. Or they send a DM in the form of what looks like a pre-written quiz, for lack of a better word. And some use bots for their free accounts.

And no. It has nothing to do with my user name. Ha-ha. In fact, I don't even tell them about the gaming forums I go on. But trying to humour them is seriously pointless, as they are inclined to turn nasty - FAST. They just seem too off the scale mentally. And if you start fishing for info on some of them, you may come away shocked.

Then you get women glossing up their profiles. "I provide the ultimate porn experience for blah blah amount extra" and so on. Half the time if you message them, going into details, they either act offended or totally disinterested. This suggests they lied or are confused by it all. So why compose that crap as carrot dangling to begin with?

The ones into BDSM are even more soured. They act like they want to kick the snot out of you from the jump if you say the least little, usually non-offending remark. Granted, they are very fierce in general. But it surprises me just how so not laid back a lot of them are.

Then there's the scams and fake profiles, that use old or stolen pictures. Asking you to pay a deposit, sometimes with a voucher to deter detection, then ghosting your naive ass for reasons only they know.

But yeah. Some of them do deceive you by uploading pictures they took, God knows how far back ago in time. So they look nothing like that now. Think 10 years and 1000 Big Macs later. That kind of old.

Unfortunately, it all feels like they just enjoy playing games. They seem to be full of themselves. I even contacted the world's tallest escort, who is from Sweden, and I just got pompous replies when I questioned her undesire to tour properly. I'm in Scotland, but I noticed she tours in London. Never up here.

However, 2024 has been the pits. I just haven't found anyone to gel with. But some of the mistresses I like reside too far away. So it is not likely I will ever meet them for real, making being a fan feel like it yields zero merit.

Frustrating. Eh?

[Moviefan2k4]

I have admittedly had many bad habits in my 44 years of life, but thank God none of them involved hiring any kind of sex worker. Given my lack of experience, I think the main reason a lot of them are so cold is because they've essentially had their hearts killed by the nature of what they do. Its not about love, compassion, or any true form of intimacy for them - its all about sex, and they expect to be paid. Its a very selfish and one-sided business, and they probably have the modern equivalent of pimps that they have to answer to. So their general attitude is probably something like, "Pay me, and let's get this over with so I can move on to someone else." It may sound demeaning or cruel, but that's what happens when you begin thinking of sex as involving the physical alone.

[Moviefan2k4]

Originally Posted by TheSaunderschild1993

Yeah. I gathered that they have depression, could be forced into it, or likewise, having some less than stellar men to put up with.

But you certainly do get a lot of odd people online. Often angry, cowardly, clannish sorts. This even applies to forums about video games. They argue about all kinds of meaningless topics.

This is why I stopped supporting a certain YouTuber, because I pledged to him. Then I noticed he became really pompous and started demanding views, and telling people to get lost for not being at every stream. He looked like a child stomping their feet when you didn't buy them candy floss at the amusement park. So I just thought I'd stop trying to hang in with him, as being called a "simp" on the air is kind of derogatory.

So like, I supported your dumb arse for 4 years, called in on Skype, used Super Chat and chimed in with posts. But I am a simp now. Nah, bro.

I lost my mum last year after she experienced a lengthy period of poor health. I always did feel very lonely even when she was around. But she also knew how self-centered much of the world had become.

We as people are often very selfish by nature; we want our own way and don't usually care who we have to step on to get it. Thank God for truly loving parents who practice proper discipline (not abuse), raising their kids to know that every choice has a consequence, be it good or evil. Nowadays, there's too many people in the world who think that morality is relative, that truth doesn't exist, and that so-called "tolerance" is the epitome of human expression. But if you really think for even a brief moment, does that really make any sense? What would happen if you let your kid wander into the street, just because they wanted to? They'd almost certainly be killed. Or how about if you condoned your teenager or young adult offspring sleeping around like crazy; would you applaud them for getting and possibly spreading STDs? Of course not. But our culture these days has become so blind and corrupted, that too many people truly believe having any set moral standard makes you an inherently wicked human being...yet at the same time, they can't define what "inherent wickedness" really is. Its a huge double standard, and its extremely sad to say the least.

[Tsukiyomi]

Originally Posted by TheSaunderschild1993

By the way, what kind of mental illness is this?

Whenever I go somewhere with my sister, she thinks ambulances are spying on her, or the police. She gets very anxious. She shouts at people if they laugh at a table or whatever, or use a phone. Makes claims that she is being recorded.

We were sitting on a bench once, and she seen a curtain move at a random window. Claimed someone knew her ex.

She told me mum's ghost plays with her hair. And she often talks about wanting to get a sitting with a spiritist. I've repeatedly told her that this practice is considered to be dangerous, according to religious people, or in the best case scenario, merely a method of fraud. Yet she persists it is genuine.

Years ago, she lived in a flat by myself. She showed me photos and there was faces with red eyes on her wall, and weird skulls that looked like something from a horror movie, indicating it was haunted.

She got a lady and a family friend to bless the property. Both persons are deceased now. But I swear. She has been behaving in a very peculiar manner. However, seeing that weird imagery in her flat was creepy. She got told they are shadow demons.

Similarly, these mistresses are sadists. They wear bondage gear with devilish symbols. I don't think they're the full shilling, whether I throw shade at it or not. At least escorts are supposed to be more vanilla and tame.

First thing to come to mind is schizophrenia but I am not a psychologist or anything of the sort.

[Moviefan2k4]

Originally Posted by Tsukiyomi

First thing to come to mind is schizophrenia but I am not a psychologist or anything of the sort.

I was thinking more along the lines of just an extreme case of flat-out paranoia, but the description of his sister's supposed interest in the occult is very alarming. Its not like the fictional variety depicted in the Harry Potter films - dark spirituality is very real, and as its already been mentioned is extremely dangerous. Things like Ouija boards, seances, the entire Wiccan worldview...all of that's a precipice I don't think any reasonable person should ever approach. As the famous quote by Charles Baudelaire says, "the devil's greatest trick was convincing mankind he didn't exist."

[TheSaunderschild1993]

She is going through a custody battle. Had four children taking away, including two by her latest partner. Her most recent kid was born in August, but social workers had her daughter put with a carer the following Monday, because she gave birth on a Friday. This occurred in 2022 as well. They kept her in the hospital until this was all arranged.

Over and over again, she has tried to get a lawyer, but it has been in vain as nobody is keen to help her. In fact, I generously gave her hundreds of pounds months ago, because she claimed she could take out an interim interdict, or something. She must have looked this up on Google. But she is no legal expert. Plus, she never even got the order either. So giving her that cash was pointless. She only returned small amounts.

In a similar ordeal, I had to go to court over ex support workers stitching me up, but I had a legal defence lawyer who was a tit. People lied. Cried wolf. You name it.

I tried to get a doctor's note to verify I cannot travel, as the court is in another town this time around. It ain't far by bus, but I have anxiety issues to do with wide open spaces and public transport. So they just deferred it until November.

I don't even get any support whatsoever. I tried to be a film extra several years ago, as I enjoy acting. Had a multitude of these idiots blackballing me, with producers I did not even know. Thus, I had put it on a computer stick. Then my lawyer was just being a moron.

My previous lawyer just messed me about. Like I said, I once gave him a USB stick with evidence on it. He made out he lost it. Other times, he made these off handed remarks, or was sarcastic. But when I lost my mum, he demanded to see a certificate as proof, just days after she had died. But other people just took the Mickey too for long enough. And for years, it was an uphill battle.

That was the final straw. I more or less dismissed his ass. What he said was incredibly rude. But he was useless anyway.

[TheSaunderschild1993]

Oh, and our mum died on my sister's birthday. September 9.

I have three sisters. Their birthdays are:

12 November, 1973.
9 September, 1982.
9 September, 1989.

The last time I spoke to my mum before a nurse overdosed her (according to paramedics who came to her house) was the 4th of September, just last year. She had an aortic aneurysm, was on dialysis, and had a few strokes, and one heart attack. This was all caused by being a heavy smoker.

She was visiting a hospice. My sister claims they purposefully removed her catheters. Police came to the house as my mum would not let them in. But nobody could determine if she ended the treatment or if it had been forcefully terminated. There was too many mixed signals. The hospice staff blamed the NHS, and the NHS in Edinburgh blamed the hospice.

My brother, who I never met, was born on 4 September, 1979. He only lived for a little over a week. He was born way too prematurely, and died on the 12th. My mum's dad died in June the same year, from a heart attack.

But damn. That is so creepy. But my sister is just going to continue running after that alcoholic bully. He even cheated on her in the past. So I really don't understand why she wants to be this gullible.

This always happens. People do stuff. She complains. She runs back to them. Things are okay for a while. If that. Then they act up again. And the same thing occurs. She cannot help herself.

But yeah. That supernatural stuff is true.

[John1701D]

[Moviefan2k4]

I know what its like to chase after the wrong person in a relationship, partly because you truly love them, and also because you're afraid to be alone. I did it twice after the only woman I loved outside my family abandoned me, and even though we tried to make it work, everything eventually went up in smoke.

Originally Posted by John1701D

Stop being a jackass. You have someone who's genuinely puring their heart out. That's not something a civil person dismisses easily, or even ridicules.

[TheSaunderschild1993]

Yeah. But unfortunately, people online are often silly.

There is this annoying knob in Western Australia called James, and he creates a plethora of accounts on other forums, Fandom, Internet Archive and YouTube, calling me names, tagging me, contacting people about me, and quoting me on a blog. Puts dumb potato faces in the posts as well, and calls me a retard.

He is also constantly uploading bizarre videos, pretending he is walking about my town, picking up a photo of Lance Reddick, an envelope, and whatnot.

In his older videos, he was seen half disguised, tossing a Pepsi bottle down stairs and kicking it. Then in one he deleted, he got off an elevator and recorded himself walking at a nearby promenade, or whatever.

I even called the cops in Perth when it escalated to him posting my address, but they said they don't have the jurisdiction to arrest a person if you say you are in Britain. Although he has known me online since 2004, the harassment began in 2017.

He posted pictures of himself and then I got a New Zealand IP address. Then I found his Twitter profile. Since then, he has made Sherlock Holmes jokes, while obsessing over me and listing my user name changes. Because on some forums, you can alter your alias or ask an admin to do it. But then he just lists all of them, or sends me friend requests that I immediately have to reject.

Like, this is his spam.

https://anxietyforum.net/forum/showt...901#post259901

And this is his weird YouTube channels.

https://m.youtube.com/results?sp=mAE...esaundersadult

https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCe0SwfuRx_r4HeWvVqOc9vA

[MrHT]

Originally Posted by TheSaunderschild1993

I know of a site where you basically place a booking. They will go to your address as an 'out call', or you attend accommodation where they are.

The thing is, I just think a lot of them have a bad attitude, so I seldomly even get to the meeting stage. Like, if you message them on AW, just trying to be nice, chatty or whimsical, it seems to invariably bore or annoy them. Now I know they probably aren't really into small talk or dirty back and forth comments, despite egging you on a bit. But it is amazing just how cold they are. I've messaged countless users on AW, and only a few are ever nice.

If you join their OnlyFans too, the golden rule is that you do not ask for sessions. At all. It is just against their policy. But then users on it start to bombard you with pay-to-see clips. Often just brief or boring ones. And in some cases, their free videos on X are surprisingly better. Some of their paid content has their face hidden as well, so I have to question why anyone would care if they show it on X but not on their other platforms. But they just constantly bug you to tip them. Or they send a DM in the form of what looks like a pre-written quiz, for lack of a better word. And some use bots for their free accounts.

And no. It has nothing to do with my user name. Ha-ha. In fact, I don't even tell them about the gaming forums I go on. But trying to humour them is seriously pointless, as they are inclined to turn nasty - FAST. They just seem too off the scale mentally. And if you start fishing for info on some of them, you may come away shocked.

Then you get women glossing up their profiles. "I provide the ultimate porn experience for blah blah amount extra" and so on. Half the time if you message them, going into details, they either act offended or totally disinterested. This suggests they lied or are confused by it all. So why compose that crap as carrot dangling to begin with?

The ones into BDSM are even more soured. They act like they want to kick the snot out of you from the jump if you say the least little, usually non-offending remark. Granted, they are very fierce in general. But it surprises me just how so not laid back a lot of them are.

Then there's the scams and fake profiles, that use old or stolen pictures. Asking you to pay a deposit, sometimes with a voucher to deter detection, then ghosting your naive ass for reasons only they know.

But yeah. Some of them do deceive you by uploading pictures they took, God knows how far back ago in time. So they look nothing like that now. Think 10 years and 1000 Big Macs later. That kind of old.

Unfortunately, it all feels like they just enjoy playing games. They seem to be full of themselves. I even contacted the world's tallest escort, who is from Sweden, and I just got pompous replies when I questioned her undesire to tour properly. I'm in Scotland, but I noticed she tours in London. Never up here.

However, 2024 has been the pits. I just haven't found anyone to gel with. But some of the mistresses I like reside too far away. So it is not likely I will ever meet them for real, making being a fan feel like it yields zero merit.

Frustrating. Eh?

Trust me, don't do it. The risk of contracting STDs and possibly HIV/AIDS, and the worry and complications that go along with it are simply not worth it, especially on a woman who has absolutely no affection for you. Sex should be accompanied with real love & affection and you will not get that whatsoever with a sex worker. Not to mention that sex work is illegal in many areas and you also risk getting arrested if you happen to get raided or end up meeting up with an undercover cop.

[John1701D]

Originally Posted by Moviefan2k4

I know what its like to chase after the wrong person in a relationship, partly because you truly love them, and also because you're afraid to be alone. I did it twice after the only woman I loved outside my family abandoned me, and even though we tried to make it work, everything eventually went up in smoke.

Stop being a jackass. You have someone who's genuinely puring their heart out. That's not something a civil person dismisses easily, or even ridicules.

Asking about hiring escorts is someone pouring their heart out?! Add in fascinating details like explaining barebacking and yes this thread is a car wreck. This is not the place for this, it's embarrassing.

[Moviefan2k4]

Originally Posted by TheSaunderschild1993

Some of them offer bareback as one of their extras.

That's sex without a condom. It's nuts.

I did have a girlfriend in 2005. She was very strange. I met up with her again years later, but she forced me to buy her an iPod. But she said she would take off if I did not get her one on credit, in Argos.

After she damaged it by forcing in a sync cable forcefully, I took it somewhere to have it repaired. She just messed me about. But I have ASD, so maybe that makes me too sensitive or dense.

I sympathize with you. My only girlfriend once asked me for money, and since it was a small amount I didn't question it first. But we were between breakups at that point, so I rethought my stance and told her I'd changed my mind. She went off on me verbally like a pyromaniac with a flamethrower, and it completely threw me for a loop. We had many forwards and reversals, but the bad times eventually outranked the good, and our last attempt ended in 2006. I've been single ever since, but I have started thinking about the possibility of another relationship recently. The problem is, I've never really had a conventional "date" in my life. I took one girl to the movies a couple of times when I was in junior high, but she seemed very distant and uncomfortable in general. I wouldn't even know what to do now, where the slightest advance gets you placed in the same category as a rapist.

[Moviefan2k4]

Originally Posted by John1701D

Asking about hiring escorts is someone pouring their heart out?! Add in fascinating details like explaining barebacking and yes this thread is a car wreck. This is not the place for this, it's embarrassing.

Relax; its the General Chat section; this isn't as if he placed this thread in one of the home video forums. Folks talk about all kinds of subjects here, and the mods only seem to care about avoiding politics, religion, and explicitly sexual images.

[Moviefan2k4]

Originally Posted by TheSaunderschild1993

I used to get support from Autism Initiatives. They're based all across the UK. Many clients have issued complaints about the conduct of their outreach employees. Some quite serious.

Shortly after my support began in the summer of 2008, my first key worker told a new recruit that I was placing ads on Gumtree. At the time, you could do that. Add those 'desperately seeking' ads, so if anybody knew the person, they could perhaps respond.

Well, she told this guy about it who started working there. Then he started sending me emails, despite being a support worker. Lots of them reached me. He eventually admitted it was his doing.

Basically, he was naming my ex-girlfriend's schools, as well as talking about a wrestler called Eddie Guerrero, who he referred to as a gay (bad word meaning vagina). Then it was various, inappropriate comments about these 80's music groups.

In one particularly offensive email that I received, he said I should shake off my mortal coil while playing a song by Tears for Fears. He mentioned this record called The World Won't Listen, too.

The Smiths released that album. But I'd never even heard of it at the time. And I looked up what a 'mortal coil' meant. It apparently means somebody should commit suicide.

He left in 2010 after I reported him for drinking during a shift. We went somewhere to play snooker, then my mate came along. It's a venue with a bowling alley, and at the time, there was a room with snooker tables to book and one pool table. But he was very weird.

The thing is, they recruit a lot of imbeciles who are not qualified about ASD. Lots of them come and go. Very few of these caregivers are even professional. Most of them just hold your hand, or lark about.

Unfortunately, all of these stories I just told you are all 100% true. Yes, I cannot believe it either. But this commotion has been affecting me for years. Once people sense you're easy to push around, they will just take advantage.

I even heard that idiot asked them for a reference after his departure. Like, what the hell? He should be blacklisted from all care firms.

Wow...I really wish I knew what to say about all of that. My only even remotely similar experiences involved having tons of therapists, even before I knew I was autistic. I enjoyed my sessions with most of them, but sooner or later they'd ask me, "What are you going to do?" I wanted to scream so many times, "Idiot! If I knew what to do, would I be talking to you?" Thankfully, I now have someone I speak with every Monday at my church, and he doesn't condemn me or ask manipulative questions. I also attend a weekly discussion called GriefShare, which involves a group of people sharing their stories and learning from each other.

[Hitman Horton]

I have not read all of your posts and I'm not going to. If what you're looking for is some kind of emotional connection, you're never going to find it from a sex worker.

[TheSaunderschild1993]

No. Not really.

You would be surprised how many men do it, though.

[Moviefan2k4]

Originally Posted by TheSaunderschild1993

Yeah. The police are bent as well.

Someone had a no contact order against me for 5 years. It ended in May of 2020. The cops came knocking on my door a week later. I did not answer, so they took the lock off.

They took me to the station. Never said why I was arrested. Never gave me a call with a lawyer. It just felt like a sham. But you see, they can often get away with this.

Apparently, I uploaded a vlog a year previously, naming them. All I did was speak into the camera and state that people messed up my life. There was nothing threatening in it. Other times though, I did sound heated. But that time, I was more chilled. It was just a video that lasted one hour, where I described being hurt by people. Free speech.

I hadn't even done anything more than that. But the court dragged it on for a while. COVID was all the rage at the time, so that just complicated what was already a huge mess.

There's corruption in the U.S. too, for sure. My roommate has epilepsy like I do, but his type is much more unpredictable. He's conscious during his seizures, and if someone touches him the wrong way, he can physically lash out.

Well, this apparently happened to him one time with the police, several years ago before I met him. They put him in a cell, but he didn't have the right meds with him so his seizures continued. The cops tried restraining him, and as predicted he lashed out. They used that as an excuse to hold him, and my cousin had to personally visit the jail to arrange his release. When he first told me that story, I was very shocked...but thinking it over now, its not very surprising. With the lack of money for proper training involving the disabled, its no wonder those cops were clueless. But they still should've known better than to just hold him for no other reason.

[TheSaunderschild1993]

He should have sued the pigs.

[MrHT]

Originally Posted by TheSaunderschild1993

Some of them offer bareback as one of their extras.

That's sex without a condom. It's nuts.

I did have a girlfriend in 2005. She was very strange. I met up with her again years later, but she forced me to buy her an iPod. But she said she would take off if I did not get her one on credit, in Argos.

After she damaged it by forcing in a sync cable forcefully, I took it somewhere to have it repaired. She just messed me about. But I have ASD, so maybe that makes me too sensitive or dense.

And the problem with sex workers is they are doing it everyday with all sorts of men. And you think they are asking for latest test results from them? I think not.

And if they are offering bareback with you, then that means they are offering it to the hundreds of other guys they are doing it with. You are nobody special that they are exclusively offering “extras” too. So you are putting yourself at risk.