The "What's on your mind?" thread

[y2jman]

so long story short there was a waitress who used to work at a bbq place where I live at now works logan's roadhouse restaurant.

umm I don't know her but 1 time I did give her double feature Saturday night fever grease bluray to get the direct cut Saturday night fever at the time I notice she wore some ring on her finger

I suppose workers take their jewelry off over at logans time to time I go over there she smiles when she see's me a cute blond woman I believe she goes to tech aka collage I guess in her early or late 20's

yesterday was over there while leaving said hello to me

now me being shy man that I am next time I go over there should I kindof asked if she want to do something like go to movies or dismissed it thinking prob do have a boyfriend meh

[Gold Ranger]

Originally Posted by sk33tr

that actually made me chuckle.

and i needed that.

so thank you.

You're welcome

[Scarriere]

[Show spoiler]

Originally Posted by Gold Ranger

Saw this last week and now this is all I can think of when I meet someone new...

Don’t be afraid of comparison, it makes you better. That’s better for both of you.

[civiclx]

Originally Posted by y2jman

so long story short there was a waitress who used to work at a bbq place where I live at now works logan's roadhouse restaurant.

umm I don't know her but 1 time I did give her double feature Saturday night fever grease bluray to get the direct cut Saturday night fever at the time I notice she wore some ring on her finger

I suppose workers take their jewelry off over at logans time to time I go over there she smiles when she see's me a cute blond woman I believe she goes to tech aka collage I guess in her early or late 20's

yesterday was over there while leaving said hello to me

now me being shy man that I am next time I go over there should I kindof asked if she want to do something like go to movies or dismissed it thinking prob do have a boyfriend meh

She could have just been being friendly or maybe it was a little more than that. You don't know for sure if she is married or single so it would never hurt to ask her out. If you know she's married and still ask her, well you already know I'll assume you can be pretty charming so I think you can be safe in bringing it up. Maybe you guys will be able to chat a bit the next time she is your server. You just don't want her to take it like, "oh, I was nice to this guy and now he thinks I like him."

I'm sure you'll get some other advice as well. Good luck!

[Jennifer Lawrence Fan]

Originally Posted by civiclx

She could have just been being friendly or maybe it was a little more than that. You don't know for sure if she is married or single so it would never hurt to ask her out. If you know she's married and still ask her, well you already know I'll assume you can be pretty charming so I think you can be safe in bringing it up. Maybe you guys will be able to chat a bit the next time she is your server. You just don't want her to take it like, "oh, I was nice to this guy and now he thinks I like him."

I'm sure you'll get some other advice as well. Good luck!

Women, am I right?

[civiclx]

Originally Posted by Jennifer Lawrence Fan

Women, am I right?

Yeah I think he's talking about a woman. He said she was his waitress. Why, did you want to offer advice on talking to women?

[Erzengel]

I mean was the ring on her ring finger? I'm conditioned to always notice that even years after I stopped "dating".

Secondly, it is different than it was, if you have her name, you could just look her up on Facebook if she is seeing someone.

However, from what you've said, it doesn't seem like she's being anything but just nice to you because that's her job. Why did you give her the blu-ray in the first place for a woman you barely know?

[y2jman]

Originally Posted by Erzengel

I mean was the ring on her ring finger? I'm conditioned to always notice that even years after I stopped "dating".

Secondly, it is different than it was, if you have her name, you could just look her up on Facebook if she is seeing someone.

However, from what you've said, it doesn't seem like she's being anything but just nice to you because that's her job. Why did you give her the blu-ray in the first place for a woman you barely know?

well i had to give it away because i wanted upgrade Saturday night fever director cut and thus had to get grease separated no need to keep double feature i thought better then trying to trade it fye which prob only give me 2 or 3 bucks on credit anyways

too bad i don't actually know woman name yes she did had one on at the time bbq joint

however i don't know now and i look at the different waitress no ring or jewelry on meh

[ArmyOfDarknessAW]

I know a massive chunk of autographs online are fake, but you'd think when you're trying to pass as real you would double check what you put up. I ran across a Furious 7 signed poster that was signed by Paul Walker. Nevermind the fact that he died about 11 months before the poster came out.

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[civiclx]

Originally Posted by y2jman

well i had to give it away because i wanted upgrade Saturday night fever director cut and thus had to get grease separated no need to keep double feature i thought better then trying to trade it fye which prob only give me 2 or 3 bucks on credit anyways

too bad i don't actually know woman name yes she did had one on at the time bbq joint

however i don't know now and i look at the different waitress no ring or jewelry on meh

How many times have you seen this woman total and when is the last time that you saw her?

[BizCat]

I need more shelving space in my basement.
I need more time to clean out my garage.

[y2jman]

Originally Posted by civiclx

How many times have you seen this woman total and when is the last time that you saw her?

Well it seems whenever i go over there she's there like i said i was over there past Sunday for lunch i saw her you guys do know what logan restaurant is basically peanut place

[sk33tr]

Originally Posted by y2jman

Well it seems whenever i go over there she's there like i said i was over there past Sunday for lunch i saw her you guys do know what logan restaurant is basically peanut place

i know what it is. i love that place. good food.


plus, my oldest niece and her boyfriend work at one.

[civiclx]

Originally Posted by y2jman

Well it seems whenever i go over there she's there like i said i was over there past Sunday for lunch i saw her you guys do know what logan restaurant is basically peanut place

Here's what you're going to do. If you want to get to know this girl better and you have no idea if she's single or not, chat her up the next time she waits on you and then ask her out...assuming it goes well enough. My problem is most of the time I have a very hard time talking to girls. Besides being nervous and insecure, I'm not a very interesting person lol So I want to get in, get a number and get out.

But if you're not like me and you're interesting, take your time and talk to her and then before you take off, ask her if she'd like to get together sometime.

I did do the same thing about a month ago at Chevy's. I liked my server, she was real sweet so rather than ask if she had a boyfriend like I normally would, I just asked her if she'd like to get together sometime. I think with her personality, she made it easy for me. Turns out she had been married only a week before but we keep in touch a bit on FB and I hung out with her last Friday. She's working on becoming a pro photographer and needed someone to take pics of her so she invited me along. She used me basically but I have no pride so I didn't mind too much

Sorry, I don't mean to make the recent discussion about me but just showing how a guy can ask a married/taken girl out (as long as he doesn't know this first) and it doesn't make him a bad guy.

Just be sweet and charming

[sk33tr]

thinking about what i want to do today.

it's so damn muggy that i really don't wanna do anything outside. and just sitting inside doing nothing is already making me bored, lol.

[Erzengel]

Originally Posted by civiclx

Here's what you're going to do. If you want to get to know this girl better and you have no idea if she's single or not, chat her up the next time she waits on you and then ask her out...assuming it goes well enough. My problem is most of the time I have a very hard time talking to girls. Besides being nervous and insecure, I'm not a very interesting person lol So I want to get in, get a number and get out.

But if you're not like me and you're interesting, take your time and talk to her and then before you take off, ask her if she'd like to get together sometime.

I did do the same thing about a month ago at Chevy's. I liked my server, she was real sweet so rather than ask if she had a boyfriend like I normally would, I just asked her if she'd like to get together sometime. I think with her personality, she made it easy for me. Turns out she had been married only a week before but we keep in touch a bit on FB and I hung out with her last Friday. She's working on becoming a pro photographer and needed someone to take pics of her so she invited me along. She used me basically but I have no pride so I didn't mind too much

Sorry, I don't mean to make the recent discussion about me but just showing how a guy can ask a married/taken girl out (as long as he doesn't know this first) and it doesn't make him a bad guy.

Just be sweet and charming

You're also trying to talk to someone at their place of business. Unless there's no one in the restaurant, she's going to have 2-4 tables she's taking care of, she might not have time to chit chat and probably not a lot of time to "get to know someone" either.

My advice is just to make enough of an impression to garner her interest and either ask for her number or give her your number.

[RageATL]

Not feeling work today, ugh.

[Batman1980]

Originally Posted by RageATL

Not feeling work today, ugh.

Me neither, wish these breaks were longer.

[RageATL]

I'm like legit in no mood to work, deal with work people or be around the general public today...so basically adulting is not my strong suit right now, haha.

[Waboman]

Originally Posted by RageATL

I'm like legit in no mood to work, deal with work people or be around the general public today...so basically adulting is not my strong suit right now, haha.