The female mind.

[Shadowself]

Originally Posted by Iceman

Sounds like you might be her backup plan

Originally Posted by HDJK

Oh that was cold

Not necessarily. It was a test.

She was just checking to see what your availability was/is.

Why?

Because if you really are a "desired individual" you'd be busy. You'd have things to do and people to see (or is that things to see and people to do? -- I can never remember that one).

There are a lot of psycosocial theories running around about how we're wired to go after the better people with whom to hook up. One way to discern that is to find out if they are busy doing things. This is not necessarily a bad thing -- and odds are it is not even a concious thing!

Bottom line, never be too available, just available enough and no more.